Still Here. Still Tired.

John 21

  1. Think about January 1st morning routines. What’s one New Year’s resolution you’ve made that didn’t even make it through the first day? What happened that derailed it so quickly?
  2. Pastor James talked about the feeling of being “still here, still tired” – carrying responsibilities and showing up faithfully, but feeling depleted. What parts of this description resonated with you or reminded you of seasons in your own life?
  3. Peter was described as being exhausted on multiple levels – physically, emotionally, and spiritually – even after seeing the resurrection. What do you think contributes to that kind of layered exhaustion in people’s lives today?
  4. Read John 21:3. When Peter says, “I’m going fishing”, this wasn’t rebellion or giving up on God, but just doing something familiar when everything else felt uncertain. How would you describe the difference between those two responses to exhaustion?
  5. Read John 21:1-6. How would you describe Jesus’ approach when He first encounters the tired disciples? What does He ask them, and what does He offer?
  6. Read John 21:9-13. Before Jesus addresses any of Peter’s spiritual issues or future calling, what does He provide? Why do you think Jesus prioritized these physical needs first?
  7. Pastor James said, “Weariness is not a sin, it’s a signal.” Based on what you heard, how would you explain the difference between rebellion against God and exhaustion? What are the signs of each?
  8. When Jesus finally speaks to Peter’s future in John 21:19, He simply says “Follow me.” According to the sermon, what is Jesus offering Peter through this invitation?
  9. Pastor James mentioned that we often “rebuke ourselves in ways Jesus never does” when we feel tired or depleted. How do you typically respond to yourself when you’re feeling exhausted or running on empty? How might that need to change?

10.Think about a time when you felt spiritually, emotionally, or physically drained while still trying to be faithful. What was that season like for you? Looking back, what do you think your weariness was signaling about what you needed?

  1. Pastor James taught that “God cares about you, not just your faith” – meaning God cares about your body, emotions, and capacity, not just your spiritual performance. How does this perspective change the way you think about bringing your whole self to God?
  2. Jesus provided fire, food, and care before He addressed Peter’s calling or future. What kind of “fire and food” – physical, emotional, or spiritual care – do you sense you might need right now?
  3. The final point was that “staying close to Jesus is where you get it back.” What would “staying close to Jesus” look like practically in your current season? What might need to change in your rhythms or priorities?

Application:

This week, try naming your weariness honestly rather than pushing through it. Complete this sentence: “I’m tired because this year/season has required _______ from me.”